The Eucharist with C...

The Huffington Post recently published an article thanking the parents of young children for bringing their kids to church because of all that it teaches us about being part of the Body of Christ. I couldn’t agree more. Specifically, I think of all the things the children in our church...

SSA: A Dad’s P...

Allow me to introduce myself. First and foremost, I’m a sinner saved by grace. I’m a husband and a father. I’ve been a youth leader, Sunday school teacher, deacon and elder. I served in the Air Force for thirty years. I was a three-sport letterman in high school, played college football,...

SSA: A Mom’s P...

My name is Donna, and I’d like to tell you about my son. Bryan is my second child, coming four years after his big brother, Jayson, and on his dad’s 31st birthday. He didn’t have a swollen and scrunched up face like some newborns, but was beautiful from the very beginning. His paternal...

Trusting My Caregiver: Reflections on a Miscarriage, and Learning How to Be a Child (Guest Post) Apr18

Trusting My Caregive...

It’s Friday, 11:20 a.m. and I am so frustrated with my little charge, Giuliana. I just picked her up from school and we are driving back to the house when she asks me what we’re going to do when we get home. I tell her that she can play while I finish up a few chores. “Can I watch...

Parents: To Love Your Children, Love God First (Guest Post) Mar03

Parents: To Love You...

There has seeped into the church culture a “new normal” with regard to children “growing up Christian.” I say “new normal” because I can only imagine it has not been this way in past generations of believers. Nothing in Scripture seems to support the idea that children growing up...

A Little Child Shall Lead Them (Guest Post) Feb18

A Little Child Shall...

In a recent staff meeting, the children’s ministries director told us that a family was “leaving our church for another place where their children could connect.” The presenting complaint was that the pre-teen and teenaged children could not understand the Sunday sermons. Therefore, they...

Foolishness is Bound up in the Heart of a Parent Feb11

Foolishness is Bound...

It’s time to make a significant difference in our homes; specifically with regard to the spiritual formation of our children. Now, in the interest of full disclosure, my wife and I are becoming expert empty-nesters. I believe we have a way to go before hitting the “veteran” level. But...

Why I Wouldn’t Teach My Kids About Santa Dec04

Why I Wouldn’t...

I don’t actually have a problem with Santa Claus.  In fact, I enjoy the general holiday cheer, even if it isn’t specifically Christian.  I’m fine with songs like ‘Santa Claus is Coming To Town,’ ‘Frosty the Snow Man,’ ‘Silver Bells,’...

Divided Again- Is Age the Problem, or Something Deeper? Aug31

Divided Again- Is Ag...

Harkening back to last week’s discussion about the film Divided, let’s continue our discussion on the issue of Christian pedagogy. Is it true that  a) separation from parents in church worship and discipleship, and b) that the practice of age-stratified ministries are really the root...